Tornadodating1

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Date registered: November 23, 2011

Latest posts

  1. Gaining The Male Perspective On Divorce — November 28, 2011
  2. It’s Hard To Open Up & Share — November 17, 2011
  3. Tornado Dating Continues With A super Scary Date Story — November 14, 2011
  4. I Don’t Know You, But Let’s Sail Away Together — May 11, 2011
  5. Sometimes Our Hearts Get Stuck — May 2, 2011

Most commented posts

  1. When Your Date’s Friends Are Too Much Drama — 5 comments
  2. I Still Don’t Get It – Online Dating & Old, Old Profile Pics — 4 comments
  3. Rambling About and Pondering My Relationship — 4 comments
  4. Getting Shot Down (Guest Post from TheUrbanDater.com) — 3 comments
  5. Another Date; Was It A Date? — 3 comments

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Oct 07

Dating Reflections

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Dating, Dating Realizations, relationships

by tornadodating1

I’m trying to take stock of the dating lessons I have learned over the last year. I can honestly say I am not the same person I was 12 months ago. I have had a lot of positive personal growth and still have more to do. (Personal growth should never stop in my opinion.) Consistency …

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Oct 03

Getting Back With An Ex

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Dating, Dating Break-ups, Dating Realizations, Just Friends, relationships

by tornadodating1

I recently broke up with a wonderful man. Why, because the timing just wasn’t right and there were some differences that were too great to overlook. I refuse to be a person or part of a couple that breaks ups and gets back together over and over again. That’s drama I am not willing to …

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Sep 27

Something’s Sinking In

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Funk, Dating Realizations, Dating Rut, Dating Stories, relationships

by tornadodating1

I still have a long way to go in terms of dating, but I am seeing progress and the application of lessons learned!!! Remember Guy #4 from one of my earlier posts this month?  Yeah, well he is still a flake. I don’t think a guy has to call, text or IM a girl every …

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Sep 22

The Dating Game

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Dating, Dating Funk, Dating Rut, Dating Stories, relationships

by tornadodating1

I recently broke up with my boyfriend and all of a sudden several guys from the past have cropped up. It’s like this cosmic test to see how much I have grown or how lonely I am. Guy #1: I met while on vacation. There was a definite attraction, but there were several red flags …

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Sep 13

Breaking Up – It’s Never Fun

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Break-ups, Dating Funk, Dating Realizations

by tornadodating1

I broke up with my boyfriend the other week. I feel horrible for breaking up, but I know it was the right decision. He’s an amazing guy, but there are certain differences and behaviors we can’t bridge. I guess it’s more of me not being able to bridge or accept those differences. I’ve talked about …

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Sep 05

Getting Back To The Basics

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Realizations, Dating Rules, Dating Rut, relationships

by tornadodating1

I’m trying not to get too far ahead of myself and to remember “the basics”. The basics include believing I am worthy of love and learning to trust in order to love authentically again. I often find myself going through the motions I know are expected of me. It’s an odd thing to question your …

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Aug 27

Stuck In A Moment

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Funk, Dating Realizations, Dating Rut, Long Distance Relationship, relationships

by tornadodating1

You’ve got to get yourself together. You’ve got stuck in a moment, and you can’t get out of it. Don’t say that later will be better. Now you’re stuck in a moment, and you can’t get out of it. And if the night runs over, and if the day won’t last, and if your way …

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Aug 22

Re-evaluating My Must-haves

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Advice & Tips, Dating Realizations, relationships

by tornadodating1

There’s no right or wrong to a must-have, but I do believe they evolve as you do. I feel that I have grown in many ways and need to clarify a couple of my must haves that I posted last year. For one, I know I want the person I am dating to appreciate and …

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Jul 07

It Just May Be A Lunatic You’re Looking For

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Dating Realizations, Dating Stories, Long Distance Relationship, relationships

by tornadodating1

It Just May Be A Lunatic You’re Looking For I started to see a therapist because of concern about how I was thinking about and approaching my relationship. How crazy is it that I think I am being crazy with a relationship in the early stages and go see a therapist to change my behavior …

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Jul 04

Dating and Vacations

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2nd Chance at Love, Dating, Long Distance Relationship

by tornadodating1

I’m learning my relationship fears are not fears that most people share with me, so this one comes as no surprise. When do you plan a vacation with the person you are dating? Let me rephrase, is it smart to plan a vacation that will cost a couple thousand dollars per person when you aren’t …

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