My “Mr. Flakey” has stepped back into the picture; baby step really. We’ve had a couple of conversations in the last month or so that are so different from any conversations we have had in the past. I think this is mainly because I have realized his emotional limitations and am more aware of his …
Category Archive: 2nd Chance at Love
Feb 15
When To Walk Away
I find myself in an uncomfortable position of hoping against hope and listening to the voice of caution echoing in my head. I’ve written about a man, whom for whatever reason, I have this crazy innate attraction. We’ve had a few dates over the course of a few years and each time our efforts fizzle …
Nov 28
Gaining The Male Perspective On Divorce
I find myself in an interesting situation where some close friends are going through a divorce or are considering a divorce. Since both of these friends are men, it provides a different perspective on my divorce. I should first say that I consider my divorce the most painful gift I have ever received. Though I …
Nov 17
It’s Hard To Open Up & Share
I’ve had interesting dating experiences – some fun and some scary! I haven’t experienced that special “spark” people speak about. (To be honest, I don’t know that it exists.) Sometimes I wonder if my psyche is screwed up and I’m not able to become deeply involved at an emotional level. Even now when I think …
Sep 05
Getting Back To The Basics
I’m trying not to get too far ahead of myself and to remember “the basics”. The basics include believing I am worthy of love and learning to trust in order to love authentically again. I often find myself going through the motions I know are expected of me. It’s an odd thing to question your …
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