My “Mr. Flakey” has stepped back into the picture; baby step really. We’ve had a couple of conversations in the last month or so that are so different from any conversations we have had in the past. I think this is mainly because I have realized his emotional limitations and am more aware of his …
Category Archive: Dating Realizations
Feb 15
When To Walk Away
I find myself in an uncomfortable position of hoping against hope and listening to the voice of caution echoing in my head. I’ve written about a man, whom for whatever reason, I have this crazy innate attraction. We’ve had a few dates over the course of a few years and each time our efforts fizzle …
Nov 17
It’s Hard To Open Up & Share
I’ve had interesting dating experiences – some fun and some scary! I haven’t experienced that special “spark” people speak about. (To be honest, I don’t know that it exists.) Sometimes I wonder if my psyche is screwed up and I’m not able to become deeply involved at an emotional level. Even now when I think …
Nov 05
Ready To Commit???
I’ve been emotionally unavailable. I thought I was in a position where I could open up and love a potential life partner, but I wasn’t. I was able to develop deep feelings and perhaps love that person, but I wasn’t able to open up and let go of my defenses. I think I just might …
Oct 29
Feeling Lost
I’m finding myself in a sad place right now. As I have worked to learn new coping skills, I have also worked to purge negative relationships from my life. I haven’t let down my defenses, so I haven’t developed new healthier relationships. This leaves me in a state of loneliness. I realize that my previous …
Oct 12
Maybe You Aren’t A Jerk, But I Wouldn’t Know
This is a brief post where I rant about flakey behavior. I’m not a needy person and I’m not demanding either, but I do think you should treat people with respect and consideration. I get that things happen and “life” can get in the way sometimes. Sometimes plans have to be changed because you just …
Oct 07
Dating Reflections
I’m trying to take stock of the dating lessons I have learned over the last year. I can honestly say I am not the same person I was 12 months ago. I have had a lot of positive personal growth and still have more to do. (Personal growth should never stop in my opinion.) Consistency …
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