I recently broke up with my boyfriend and all of a sudden several guys from the past have cropped up. It’s like this cosmic test to see how much I have grown or how lonely I am. Guy #1: I met while on vacation. There was a definite attraction, but there were several red flags …
Tag Archive: relationships
Sep 05
Getting Back To The Basics
I’m trying not to get too far ahead of myself and to remember “the basics”. The basics include believing I am worthy of love and learning to trust in order to love authentically again. I often find myself going through the motions I know are expected of me. It’s an odd thing to question your …
Aug 27
Stuck In A Moment
You’ve got to get yourself together. You’ve got stuck in a moment, and you can’t get out of it. Don’t say that later will be better. Now you’re stuck in a moment, and you can’t get out of it. And if the night runs over, and if the day won’t last, and if your way …
Aug 22
Re-evaluating My Must-haves
There’s no right or wrong to a must-have, but I do believe they evolve as you do. I feel that I have grown in many ways and need to clarify a couple of my must haves that I posted last year. For one, I know I want the person I am dating to appreciate and …
Jul 04
Dating and Vacations
I’m learning my relationship fears are not fears that most people share with me, so this one comes as no surprise. When do you plan a vacation with the person you are dating? Let me rephrase, is it smart to plan a vacation that will cost a couple thousand dollars per person when you aren’t …
Jun 15
Protective and Guarded
I remain confused. I was going to say conflicted, but confused is more appropriate. Maybe overwhelmed. I’ve been dating the same man for almost 6 months now and struggle more and more each day. I don’t struggle because he doesn’t like and I don’t struggle because I don’t like him. It’s the exact opposite. Caring …
Jun 11
Rambling About and Pondering My Relationship
I’m not quite as confused today as I was a year ago or even a few months ago, but I am still confused when it comes to dating and relationships. The first issue I am facing is a no-drama, healthy relationship. Most people will read this and think I am crazy, but remember my crazy …
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